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After Krav Class the other night a male student asked if this stuff really works for small women? There was a 16 year old girl in class that probably weighs in around 100 pounds. We were doing the defense for choke from behind with a push. After she left, he asked the question, and quipped, “I could probably pick her up by her neck.” The answer is yes, this stuff does work for small women, but only when done right.

The most important factor is to not put yourself in a bad situation.  If you find yourself in a bad situation, escape if possible. Run, or drive away or hop on a bus or get into a taxi or run into an open business or jump out the window, whatever it takes to escape. If you are still in a bad situation, fight, but only until you can escape.

The mental aspect is very important,  make the decision that if a man tries to rapes me, it will be the hardest thing he ever does. Aggression is very important, it is more important to respond immediately, forcefully and aggressively, than it is to do the moves perfectly. Form often goes out the window in the heat of the moment, but fierce aggression can make up for crappy form. Fight dirty. If you are going to get raped, you have the right to defend yourself. Use your nails, scratch, bite, kick, punch, elbow, scream at the top of your lungs and gouge his eyes out. Stick you thumb into his eye socket and scoop his eyeball out like an avocado pit. Don’t use this move on your boyfriend whom you love and if he is good to you;  save it for the worst day of your life, for use on the worst person you have ever met.

Last night I hosted a Free Women’s Self-Defense Seminar & Girls’ Night Out at my facility.  I tried very hard to promote it through Facebook, Twitter & Linked In, as well as through a Flyer and my BNI Chapter. Although there was a lot of grass roots promotion, and my BNI partners invited lots of guests, very few members of the general public attended that were not related to BNI. The only conclusion I can draw from this, is that most Women are not really concerned with Self-Defense. Perhaps it is too inconvenient, or unpleasant to think about. Perhaps most women feel safe. I try to promote women’s self-defense in a positive way, without scare tactics. Perhaps in the future I should resort to scare tactics? Here goes:

According to United States Department of Justice document Criminal Victimization in the United States, there were overall 191,670 victims of rape or sexual assault reported in 2005.  1 of 6 U.S. women has experienced an attempted or completed rape. (according to Colorado Coalition Against Sexual Assault) [from Wikipedia]

From 2000–2005, 59% of rapes were not reported to law enforcement.[30][31] One factor relating to this is misconception that most rapes are committed by strangers.[32] In reality, according to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, 38% of victims were raped by a friend or acquaintance, 28% by “an intimate” and 7% by another relative, and 26% were committed by a stranger to the victim. About four out of ten sexual assaults take place at the victim’s own home. [from Wikipedia]

Drug use, especially alcohol, is frequently involved in rape. In 47% of rapes, both the victim and the perpetrator had been drinking. In 17%, only the perpetrator had been. 7% of the time, only the victim had been drinking. Rapes where neither the victim nor the perpetrator had been drinking were 29% of all rapes. [from Wikipedia]

In 2005, 1,181 women were murdered by an intimate partner.1 That’s an average of three women every day. Of all the women murdered in the U.S., about one-third were killed by an intimate partner. [from NOW]

According to the National Center for Injury Prevention and Control, women experience about 4.8 million intimate partner-related physical assaults and rapes every year.4 [from NOW]

According to the National Crime Victimization Survey, which includes crimes that were not reported to the police, 232,960 women in the U.S. were raped or sexually assaulted in 2006. That’s more than 600 women every day.6 [from NOW]

Women ages 20-24 are at greatest risk of nonfatal domestic violence8, and women age 24 and under suffer from the highest rates of rape.9 The Justice Department estimates that one in five women will experience rape or attempted rape during their college years, and that less than five percent of these rapes will be reported.10   [from NOW]

So, can I interest anyone in a Women’s Self-Defense Seminar?

Please see this link to my event on Facebook.  This event is open to the public and is free.  I am doing this event to raise awareness for violence against women, to give something back to the community, and of course to promote my business in a positive way.  I added the “Girl’s Night Out” part to make it fun for attendees, and to raise awareness for and hopefully create a little business for my partners who are helping me. There will be wine & cheese and hors d’oeuvre, massages, and a jewelry, purse & candle show.  The Self-Defense will last 45 minutes and be all business. The Girl’s Night Out is scheduled to go until 9pm, leave when you want or stay all night. There will be a chance to do a little early Christmas shopping, as all of the show items are for sale.  For address & directions, click here.

I stumbled onto this sarcastic post,  5 Self-Defense Books for Women (Who Want to Lose a Fight)  (caution explicit language) on Cracked.com.  Pretty humorous, and it reminded me of this book, Fighting Back: Taekwondo for Women.  I actually took Fighting Back out of the library and skimmed it. It is full of deadly advice.  There are numerous posed pictures of women supposedly defending themselves from male attackers. Perhaps the worst advice is right on the cover, a women doing a high kick against a male  attacker.  In Krav Maga, we teach never to kick above the floating rib (that’s the lowest one).  And even that move can be dangerous.

I learned a technique from one of my teachers, (Soshu Shigeru Oyama, Kyokushin great and  founder of World Oyama Karate) , where you catch a rib height roundhouse kick, while stepping away from it, and kicking out the supporting leg.  This move is pretty effective, and is a great counter and take down. The safest advice is only kick below the waist (that’s if you can’t just run away in the first place).

One photo in Fighting Back has a pretty women in a mini skirt, with teased up 80’s hair, kicking to a man’s face. I was turned on just looking at the photo! What could happen is that the kicking leg is caught, the women get’s taken down, and the attacker goes right up her skirt. Not good.  This book is supposed to prevent that.

We worked on combos, punching only, followed by punching & kicking. Then we reviewed and drilled choke defenses to make them more instinctive.

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